بين ” السماح ” و ” المعنى الآخر ” .. الكاتبة السعودية أرجوان بنت سليمان تتحدث عن الرحيل على طريقتها .
أصيلة ـ بورتريه ـ سماح الوسلاتي
” لقد آمنت بالرحيل أكثر من اللقاء ولهذا كنت التقي بأشخاص يعكسون ما آمنت به ” هي كلمت خطتها الكاتبة والروائية أرجوان بنت سليمان في روايتها ” للرحيل معنى آخر ” .. كلمت أحستها قد تكون عاشتها او لا ، ولكنها ترجمتها في مؤلفها الأول ” للرحيل معنى آخر ” .. ولئن لم يسعفني الحظ بعد للقاء الكاتبة السعودية التي ترجمت مؤلفات عالمية الى اللغة العربية إلا إني من خلال قراءتي السريعة لتراجمها ولروايتها أحسست بان علاقتها مع الرحيل تأتي من تجربة عاشتها .. قد لا اعرف تفاصيلها ولكني استشفيت بعض خفاياها بين اسطر روايتها .
” للرحيل معنى آخر ” رواية أهم ما فيها أنها تعكس تفكيرا ايجابيا ومتفائلا من خلال رسالة أرادت كاتبتها إيصالها لكل من عاش الألم من قراءها لفقدان شخص عزيز عليه بسبب الوفاة .. الم شرحت أرجوان طرق التحرر منه والتخلص منه على طريقتها.
اقتحمت ضيفة موقع ” أصيلة ” اليوم عالم الكتابة من خلال ترجمة كتاب ” السماح بالرحيل ” للكاتب الأمريكي ديفيد هاوكيز إلى اللغة العربية ، وهو كتاب يشرح آلية بسيطة وفعالة يمكن من خلالها التخلص من معوقات التنوير والتحلل من السلبية .. ترجمة الكتاب صدرت في 2015 ، حينها كان التحدث عن هذه المصطلحات أو حتى مجرد ترجمتها يعتبر جرأة .. جرأة ميزت كاتبتنا السعودية التي ما إن فتحت أبواب التنوير والتحرر من قيود العرف والتقاليد في المملكة انطلقت في أولى رواياتها وهو ” للرحيل معنى آخر ” في 2018 .
ولئن كان الهدف الرئيس لمؤلف الكاتب الأمريكي هو إيجاد الوسائل الأكثر فعالية في تخفيف معاناة البشر بجميع أنواعها بعد عقود من الممارسة النفسية السريرية ، فان أرجوان بنت سليمان سعت من خلال ترجمتها لهذا الكتاب إلى اللغة العربية إلى إيصال هذه التجارب إلى الشعوب العربية التي ، وان كانت تخفي ما تبطن ، فان معاناتها النفسية على اختلافها تتشابه مع التجارب التي تطرق إليها الكاتب الأمريكي في بعض تفاصيلها ، ومن هنا نشأت نظرة كاتباتنا وضيفتنا السعودية ، المستقبلية الثاقبة في ضرورة تقديم هذا الكتاب إلى العالم العربي وما قد يقدمه من منفعة هامة تم التطرق لها عبر صفحاته. 
” السماح بالرحيل ” بدا لنا في وهلة أولى حافزا أساسيا لكاتبتنا الشابة لخوض غمار الكتابة الخاصة بها ، فعكست روايتها الأولى ” للرحيل معنى آخر ” شغفها بالمجال الذي دفع الكاتب الأمريكي لكتابة ” السماح بالرحيل ” .. وبين ” السماح ” و ” المعنى الآخر ” كان الرحيل نقطة لقاء جمعت المؤلفين مع اختلاف في زاوية طرح فكرة الكتاب .. ففي حين أراد الكاتب الأمريكي توثيق تجارب نفسية بطريقة او بأخرى ، سعت الكاتبة السعودية إلى إبراز المعنى الايجابي للرحيل وطرق التعامل مع الم الرحيل بمختلف أوجهه وخاصة الوفاة باعتبارها رحيل لا نختاره ولكن نجد أنفسنا أمامه وفي اغلب الأحيان بصورة مفاجأة .
الرواية الأولى لكاتبتنا الشابة أرجوان بنت سليمان تجعلك تتعرف على شخصية الكاتبة بين الأسطر حتى وان لم تسعى لذلك .. وتولد لديك شغفا كبيرا لمعرفة ما قد تقدمه لنا هذه الروائية الشابة من مؤلفات ورويات أخرى في المستقبل القريب .
وكما غردت أرجوان على صفحتها الرسمية على تويتر في إحدى المرات عقب انتهائها من كتابة وليدتها الأولى ” للرحيل معنى اخر ” تقول : حان الوقت لأسمح لصديقي الذي لازمني أشهر عديدة بالرحيل كي يعيش تجربته في المكتبة العربية.. فإننا نجيبها لنقول : ونحن في انتظار صديق آخر ليأخذنا بين أوراقه في تجربة أخرى تجمع بين الإمتاع والمؤانسة .

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